Patterns available for crocheters... frustration

Is it only me but I find that there are all those really nice patterns for knitters but I can't seem to find nice one for crochet. Most of the projects are tacky and out of style when you are looking for women clothes. I can't find nice twin set or tops.

I have tried to knit but I can't get a handle on it. I feel trap with the two needles... a bit claustrophobic. On top of that, it is sooo slooow to get anything done, feels like forever to see some fabric. Maybe I should take a class but at the same time I feel like I am cheating on my first love; crochet.